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Todd's Advice to Parents Struggling with Their Health

Written by Stark | Apr 26, 2024 1:20:00 PM

For many parents, the singular devotion to their children's wellbeing can often lead them to neglect their own health. The relentless schedule of parenthood, coupled with the emotional and physical strains, can push personal health to the bottom of the priority list. Stark's CEO, Todd Vande Hei, undertsood this all too well. Incorporating lessons from his own health wake-up call, Todd shares his essential tips to start turning the tide on your wellbeing. And remember, investing in your health isn’t just a gift to yourself, it’s an investment in your child's future, too.



1. Commit to Making Your Health a Priority

Your child's needs are non-negotiable, and as a parent, you wholeheartedly accept that responsibility. Yet, it's equally critical to recognize that by taking care of your health, you're ensuring that you can show up for your family in the best way possible. Clear communication and teamwork with your partner can create the balance needed to support one another's physical health as well as mental wellbeing.

Taking care of your own health as a parent also sets a powerful example for your children. It teaches them the importance of self-care and health as priorities in life. Children often emulate their parents' habits and behaviors; by observing you making time for exercise, choosing healthy food options, and managing stress effectively, they learn to incorporate these healthy habits into their own lives.

Additionally, being in good physical and mental health allows you to engage more fully with your family. You'll have more energy to play with your children, participate in their activities, and handle the daily demands of parenting. Ultimately, your commitment to health is a commitment to being present and active in your family's life for years to come. This proactive approach to well-being not only enriches your life but also sets a strong foundation for your children's future health and happiness.

 

2. Just Move

It doesn't take a gym membership to make a difference. Start by small means—choosing the stairs over the elevator, parking farther from the store, or simply having family walks after dinner. These tiny physical investments can pay off significantly in your long-term health. Track your steps to set achievable goals and gradually increase your activity levels each week.

Moving more as a family not only benefits everyone’s health but also strengthens family bonds. Consider integrating these activity ideas into your routine:

  • Bike Rides: Explore your neighborhood or local trails on bicycles. It's a fantastic way to see new sights while getting some exercise.
  • Gardening Together: Gardening is an excellent physical activity that can involve the whole family. Planting, watering, and weeding offer a workout that contributes to the beauty of your home environment.
  • Weekly Sports Nights: Dedicate one night a week to playing a sport together, whether it’s soccer in the backyard, basketball at a nearby court, or frisbee in the park.
  • Charity Runs or Walks: Participating in community charity runs or walks is a wonderful way to stay active and support a good cause.

These activities not only encourage a healthy lifestyle but also create meaningful family memories. Plus, they show your children the importance of staying active in a fun and engaging way.

 

3. Manage Your Sleep

In the haze of endless parenting tasks, sleep becomes a luxury you indulge in only sporadically. However, just like the oxygen mask on an airplane, you need to secure your rest before you can assist others. Establish a sleep routine, making sure you get the hours you need, even if it means adjusting your lifestyle during the day. Saying no to that late-night show might just be your best parenting decision yet!

Improving your own sleep can have profound, positive effects on your family dynamics and the general atmosphere at home. When you're well-rested, your patience and ability to remain calm under pressure increase significantly. This means that the normal trials and tribulations of family life, from the morning rush to bedtime routines, can be navigated with more grace and less stress. Your improved mood and energy levels not only make you more approachable but also more present during family interactions, leading to deeper connections and more meaningful conversations.

Furthermore, parents who prioritize good sleep hygiene set a powerful example for their children. Kids who see their parents adhering to a consistent sleep schedule are more likely to mimic this behavior, understanding the value of sleep in maintaining overall health and well-being. This can lead to better sleep habits for the entire family, reducing instances of irritability, morning fatigue, and daytime drowsiness.

 

4. Invest In Your Health

Ultimately, investing in your health doesn't require a radical lifestyle shift. Seeing a functional medicine or naturopathic doctor can open new perspectives on your wellbeing, addressing issues conventional medicine might miss. It's important to realize that investing in your health is an incremental process, and even the smallest changes can yield big results.

Simple mindfulness practices, like meditation or yoga, not only improve mental clarity but also foster good physical health. Furthermore, mindfulness can lower blood pressure and reduce chronic pain, offering not just a mental but also a physical respite. These health benefits underscore the interconnectedness of mind and body, showing that mental practices can have tangible effects on our physical health. By investing time or resources into your health, you can enhance all aspects of your well-being and lead a more fulfilling life for both yourself and your family.

 

Making time for your health may seem an insurmountable task in the throes of parenthood, but it is far from impossible. By adopting these suggestions, you're not just bolstering your own health, but setting a powerful example for your children. After all, they learn from your actions, not your words. Your health is the foundation from which your ability to parent effectively and enjoy life with your children springs. Remember, taking care of your health isn't selfish – it's a necessary part of being the best parent you can be.